Parenting by the Book
STUDY 289
Text: Proverbs 25
7 January 2007
Dear Parents,
TYPES OF RELATIONSHIP
It is important that we teach our children how to cultivate relationships. Three types of relationships must be carefully considered.
1. A relationship with God
a) With God as Saviour… Gratitude
b) With God as Lord… Obedience
2. A relationship with Family
a) Love
b) Loyalty
3. A relationship with friends and neighbours
a) Discernment
b) Discretion
ON THE SUBJECT OF NEIGHBOURS
Let us take time to ponder the following text. It is a highly instructive word concerning the subject of being neighbours.
Seldom set foot in your neighbor’s house,
Lest he become weary of you and hate you.Proverbs 25:17
1. A neighbour… a necessary component of a community
Community was an important concept, then and now. Neighbours, people who live in the same neighbourhood are part of a living community.
2. A neighbour… is not family
Community is not family. A neighbour must not be mistaken as “family” either.
3. Possibility of a strained relationship
It is possible for any relationship to become strained. Neighbours who are initially friendly may be filled with animosity one day. It is thus wise to keep a well-defined amount of distance, where neighbourliness is concerned. Wisdom must prevail.
Prayerfully,
Pastor Charlie